Don Imus Done In Radio, But Can I Rap With Jay-Z About His Hos? - Page 2
So my question is, if I am singing a Nelly, Jay-Z, or 50-Cent song, am I allowed to sing the parts where they are talking about their "n*ggas" or their "hos" or their "bitches" without being considered a racist or a sexist? What about if my daughter's in the car and we hear a song come on and they are using those terms (and trust me, if you listen to the rap stations, this is an issue) what if she uses those phrases? Am I just not supposed to enjoy the music I like because I am white and can't appreciate the subtle nuances of an Afro-centric culture because I was born a different color? Don't get me wrong, I have no rhythm and I can't dance, but I like me some "black" music, including the kind whose culture is somewhat foreign to me as a suburban white person.
I am not trying to cause a problem or suggest that people be allowed to use hate speech. Quite the opposite. But how fair, and I mean fair as in equal, is it to have a subculture in our society that speaks at least for a segment of the black population that uses these terms (and certainly "nappy-headed ho" is a term that's Afro-centric) but then complain when non-blacks use it. Again, not talking about Don Imus saying stupid crap about Rutger's athletes, I'm talking about our society as a whole being infilitrated with lingo and references that are used primarily by African-Americans about African-Americans. How are we supposed to know what's okay and what's not? And no, it's not black or white, it's gray.
I know there are a billion stories about the double standards of rap and Don Imus's flare-up. But that's not my issue or my question, my question is may I sing about my "n*iggas" and my "ho's." Because I like to sing. Loud. And sometimes I drive by people who aren't white. Does this mean I am a racist?
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